Tuesday, November 6, 2018

Arrogant or Confident Humility?


Tis the season where arrogance is on display! The political ads are filled with boastful politicians promising what they can do, and boasting about achievements. Sports figures dance in end zones to celebrate a touchdown, while linemen and blockers struggle back to their feet after making the achievement possible. Celebrities strut down a red carpet as the spotlight focuses on their acting made possible by creative directors, makeup artists, and stunt-doubles. Celebrity preachers promote their books and conferences by highlighting what they have achieved. Such preachers often eclipse the reality that God and spiritually gifted members God gave to the church were the key to the church’s success.
     Is humility an endangered character trait in this age of arrogance? When such a question is asked, one may postulate that people are not arrogant, just confident. While it is true that there is a fine line between arrogance and confidence, one must be careful not to confuse these character qualities. There is a distinction. Arrogance is misplaced confidence in how and why we achieve things. Arrogance trusts that what is about to be accomplished will be achieved by the individual’s efforts alone. It presumes that past achievements were due solely to one’s innate abilities. It assumes that one therefore deserves accolades from others and merits appreciation for one’s achievements. In the end arrogance focuses more upon oneself than it does upon the benefit one’s actions have on behalf of others.
     Confidence on the other hand trusts the gifts and abilities that one has been given to accomplish one’s purpose in life. Confidence understands that such enablement was given to be used wisely to fulfill a specific mission and to be used to accomplish a common good. Confidence is not concerned about self–advancement as much as it is about doing what needs to be done.
     Two characters in the Old Testament illustrate the contrast between these two attributes. The battle scene in 1 Samuel 17 provides a backdrop where these two individuals with vastly different traits are on display. Goliath parades out onto a battle field boasting about what he assumed he could do because of his size, strength, military training, military equipment, championship status, and how he compared to his opponents. He was arrogant and defiant as he faced down the army of Israel and later encountered a young shepherd boy, David. On the other hand there was David – unskilled in warfare, unequipped for a traditional battle, and aware that his only credentials were how God enabled him to be a successful shepherd in dealing with a lion and a bear. Goliath was confident in himself. David was confident in His God (17:37).
     Goliath’s arrogance was expressed in threating words, “Come here and I will give your flesh to the birds of the air and the beasts of the field” (17:44). David’s words of confidence were in what God could do through him, saying, “You come against me with sword and spear, but I come out against you in the name of the Lord Almighty, the God of the armies of Israel, whom you have defied” (17:45). The one arrogantly embracing his abilities fell before the one confidently trusting in what God could do through him. He saw God enabling him to fulfill his life’s mission for the good of his nation. Goliath lost his arrogant head, and David conquered in the confident power of His God.
     Humility is the antidote to the arsenic of arrogance. What does that humility look like?  Chris Tiegreen notes, “Having godly humility means being unassuming – resisting the urge to seek every advantage for ourselves, promote our interests, or defend our rights. We have to choose whether to be our own advocates or let God advocate for us; to defend ourselves or let God defend us; to force doors open or let God open them in His way and in His time.” He wisely added, “The kingdom of God doesn’t have a ladder of success that we can climb. It only has a floor on which we can kneel. In order to be lifted up, we must descend into a position of complete dependence. Such humility is an affront to our pride, but it is the only way to be lifted up.” There is a big difference between arrogance and humility.
      James, the oldest half-brother of Jesus, gave this challenge: “Humble yourselves before the Lord, and he will lift you up” (James 4:10). He had seen firsthand the power of confident humility in Jesus, who “humbled himself and became obedient unto death – even the death of the cross” (Philippians 2:8). Jesus conquered by an act of humility, not arrogance. What would happen in this age of arrogance if our culture was dominated by people of confident humility?