Monday, November 22, 2021

Thanksgiving Attitude Change

The supply chain has become the Grinch that stole Christmas, if you believe the marketing moguls of our consumeristic infused culture. Mass media has issued warnings that Christmas is all but ruined as our expectations and desires are captured in shipping containers at seaports along our nation’s coastlines or in the trailers of eighteen wheelers motoring down our nation’s highways. Media like the New York Times issued the warning, “Those Gifts You Want for the Holidays? Don’t Wait Too Long.” Another piece boldly announces, “Christmas 2021 is already ruined.” The author suggests five possible factors contributing to this “holiday hysteria” surrounding people’s lives (msn.com/en-us/news) including supply-chain problems, President Biden, vaccine mandates, Dr. Anthony Fauci, and climate change. Perhaps you would declare other candidates! Incidentally, if these things could ruin your Christmas, then perhaps it is time to develop a better perspective about this holiday.


Perspectives impact the way one views and responds to life. On November 3, 1992, I left the USA for Zaporozhe, Ukraine, via Moscow and Kiev. That day somewhere over the Atlantic Ocean President Bill Clinton of Arkansas defeated incumbent President George H. W. Bush. My traveling partner and I had voted, boarded our flight, and left behind us our very divided, grumbling nation. We landed to discover we had a new president back home.  In Moscow we encountered the vestiges of the USSR and a people that had a multitude of legitimate gripes. The situation in this shattered region after the dissolution of the USSR on December 8, 1991, was even more chaotic politically, socially, and economically than we could have imagined. Additionally, Ukraine had also become an independent state at this time. We were traveling to a Baptist church in Zaporozhe, Ukraine, with whom we had developed a sister church relationship earlier in 1991. When our church became aware of the desperate conditions in our sister church and their city, tractor trailers of humanitarian aid was gathered and shipped from our church to provide for some of their basic human necessities. Our two 12-hour train trips from Moscow and Kiev began the process of perspective adjustment as we saw firsthand the collapse of a nation and the chaos that ensued.

Issues we had thought so horrible in the USA began to pale in comparison to what we saw and experienced. A socialistic communistic empire was in ruins. Much of the infrastructure was broken. Rolling blackouts were the norm in the city of Moscow. Transportation was both obsolete and inadequate. People were selling their personal possessions on the street corners hoping to acquire a few rubles or to barter for necessities. Conditions were worse as we went further east. In newly established Ukraine the chaos was amplified. In Zaporozhe, Ukraine, the shortages were extreme as food, fuel, and medicine were in short supply. Bartering was the norm as currency was all but worthless. One evening I walked in the darkened city where streetlights were inoperable. Our only illumination were the trash fires around which people huddled begging for their survival. Tears came to my eyes. I began to process the ingratitude lodged in my heart that had numbed me to the needs of this corner of the world once viewed by me as the evil empire. Blessed by God beyond measure back home, yet I grumbled about politics, complained about the cost of things, and moaned and lusted over possessions I craved. Perspective was adjusted in those moments as tears and melted snow ran down my face and my heart was convicted of my ungrateful spirit. A new attitude prodded me to do more to actively address the inhumanity I saw in the world.

I returned to the USA just a few days before Thanksgiving. I worshiped freely on Thanksgiving Eve with fellow Christians. This privilege of gathering had been restricted for seventy years in the former USSR. The Ukrainians cherished and enjoyed the privilege they now had to worship. On Thanksgiving Day, I sat in a warm house. I feasted at a banquet-like table laden with an abundance of foods that would literally take days to eat – and likely the leftovers would become a source of grumbling days later. In Ukraine people may have some thin borsch soup and plain dark bread if they were fortunate. My perspective again was altered. My thanks was now heart-felt and not programed gratitude. My eyes saw beyond my immediate world, and I recalled the world of others. My perspective was being translated into action. Genuine empathy is only productive when that emotion is transformed into action. In the Bible the Apostle John summarizes that thought this way, “This is how we know what love is: Jesus Christ laid down his life for us. And we ought to lay down our lives for our brothers and sisters. If anyone has material possessions and sees a brother or sister in need but has no pity on them, how can the love of God be in that person? Dear children, let us not love with words or speech but with actions and in truth” (1 John 3:16-18).

I had an attitude adjustment that November 1992. Do I need another one? It does not require a trip to some needy area of the world. It requires a heart adjusted to see the needs of the world, both in this nation and the nations around us. This Thanksgiving may we take time to consider the many needs of others and reach out to meet them.

Have a wonderful Thanksgiving filled with genuine gratitude and generosity toward others.